Long distance relationships are difficult enough when you definitely know the person you are with. What if you don’t ??
Recently…a person, who then became a client, contacted API to look into the current background on a person they were engaged to.
They were involved in a long distance relationship for several years. Financial help was provided to the “subject” who had told my client their profession kept them traveling a lot and family illnesses kept them from seeing my client, quite often. They spent a recent holiday together and saw each other again just before calling me.
As it turned out, we discovered, the subject of our search, unbeknownst to my client;
Is and had been married long before meeting my client (client believed divorced), living with the spouse ( very expensive home) and with a new child on the way. The subject had no intent to leave the spouse and was looking forward to having a new baby.
Obviously, there were “Red Flags” (maybe light red, because my client did not want to think they were being lied to) that made my client contact me…but as the saying goes…If your gut is talking to you, go with it.
“Red Flags” vary and are unique to every situation. What might be a “Red Flag” to you, may not have the same significance in another relationship. Whatever the case may be, if there are any…why not call to discuss? The call is a free consult and strictly confidential.